DISQUS

daddyjason · 1 year ago

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Xtie G · 1 year ago

The sweetness and innocence of their relationship is what made that film for me. I liked not knowing what he said to her...having it left to my imagination...something to ponder after it was over. But a few years later I like finally knowing what he actually said and don't find it inappropriate or unfitting to the film.

"I don’t know what it means. I don’t think we ever will. They are both married, so the real guy inside me wants to think that they just return to their lives, but another part of me hopes they end up together.

What do you think? Does it make a difference knowing what he said?"

I don't think what he said makes a difference at all: they were an unlikely match who found themselves alone in a strange city, lost in their own lives but together in this place and condition. Despite feeling alone and disconnected from the world, they were able to make a human connection with each other BECAUSE of this perfect confluence of place, time and respective circumstances. While the romantic and sexual tension between them is palpable (this is just brilliantly acted by both of them) I don't think there's any question that the realization of it just wouldn't make anything better: in their lives, in their marriages, in their relationship with one another...just worse, so they don't go there. They also know that pursuing one another later, in the "real" world would be pointless: it would never work.

So they leave one another with the unspoken understanding that the little thing they shared in that strange place, in that short period of time, was perfect and pure and meaningful to them both...and should be left that way.

I liked that they realized that just because they could didn't mean they should. Adultery would've just cheapened the sweet thing they had together.

Great, great film.

Mike · 1 year ago

Good comment Xtie...there is a lot to be taken from that scene and what might be going on inside of them.

Thanks for stopping by!

kae · 1 year ago

Few years ago when I watched this film for the first time, I wasn't interested in knowing what he said to her at the end. I like the mystery that the film put in the mind of its audience. But watching it again and again makes me want to know what he said that gave Charlotte some hope.

What they had was special, and nothing can take that away from them. Bob may leave her physically but the memories will bring back good feelings to Charlotte like he was never away. As for Bob I think it will be harder for him as he has to deal with being with his wife of 25 years and kids again. He may be physically back with his family, but his heart and mind is with Charlotte at the other side of the world.

That's what I love about this film. They know their place in their special relationship and they never took advantage of the situation. Love can be translated and communicated in many ways. And this film touched me dearly.

Mike · 1 year ago

I feel the same way Kae...good analysis of what they felt, I kind of think you got it right.

Now I'm wanting to watch it again :)

Mmmmm · 1 year ago

I read something different somewhere else. Something like "I'll never forget the last few days with you. Don't part mad, tell him the truth, ok?"

I don't know about the first part, but the Don't part mad sounds about right when I rewatched it just now.

Mike · 1 year ago

Interesting...it's really too hard to hear to figure out if he said that or not.

Sarah · 1 year ago

I think they meet up in the US. In his limo after the goodbye, Bill Murray beautifully communicates the look of an excited young man, embarking on something new, as a gentle breeze gusts through his hair, the first sense of fresh air we get in the film. I'm more cynical about human nature and it is wishful thinking in today's world that people don't jump ship when there is a better offer on the table.

Anyway, if I was her, I'd be checking the internet for his agent the moment I got back to the hotel!

R | V · 1 year ago

Think this analogy:
Musician (composer) select a level -volume/intensity-
for each instrument, for each sound.
What happens, what happens with the music,
if you turn up and down levels a piaccere?

I think that's what happens with this issue
the 'message' of the movie -that complex structure-
has been broken, or modified.

Good Charlotte · 1 year ago

This movie will always stick with me. Have watched it countless times. Paints an incredible picture of the sense of lostness we all experience at various stages in our life. The connection between Bob and Charlotte is so well done that we find ourselves somehow hoping they get together, even though our better natures know they are both married and such a union would ruin a family and rob a young woman of her continued quest for self-discovery. I loved "Roman Holiday" and had a similar reaction when Gregory Peck walks away from Audrey Hepburn after their brief romantic fling. It was the honorable thing to do...special while it lasted, but not viable for either of them. It was simply a special moment in time. The digitally enhanced audio interpretation of the final whisper may or may not be what was said. I much prefer the mystery. Seeing Charlotte walk away from Bob with a sense of hope, or the possibility of hope, and Bob being driven to the airport, reflecting on all that has happened is enough for me. Wonderful film. Probably won't see the like of it for many years.

Willam · 1 year ago

I totally agree with all of you. This film is fantastic in many subtle ways and it should be left as it was done. The mistery in Murray´s final words play an important roll in the imagination of each viewer. The way it ends it´s finally your choise which will depend on your own sentimental needs. I kind of gift the script writer gave to us all I guess.

Philip Han a.k.a Beatsiz · 1 year ago

This movie reflects almost EXACTLY how I felt/feel/will feel when I travel to some specific places, or at different times in my life, or different factors such as mood, environment...
I get this sense of "No ones sees me, no one hears me, I am alone" just like they do, and I mainly see the world as perfectly smooth, this big city working and it doesnt care that im just sitting here or whatever and I can just watch it flourish.

Its actually a great environment for thinking, working, innovating etc...

This is definitely one of my favorite movies, id say the same spot as Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind


When I allegedly found out what he said I completely believed it... 5 minutes later (now) I dont... I still think my mind over powers it and tells me that the movie ended there and its up to me to make up the rest



-Philip Han

Cap'n Schwartz · 1 year ago

"So the big mystery for all that saw it was this: What did he say to her?" I think he said who the fifth Cylon was....

cwj · 1 year ago

He says

I’ll always remember the past few days with you… Don’t part mad, tell him the truth, okay?

or something.

Much more fitting.

THERE IS YOUR CLOSURE.

Harry · 1 year ago

I think I tend to agree with Xtie. This film is truly moving and the last scene kind of took my breath away and was so awesome (just like honey is the best song and works PERFECTLY here) There are so many mixed emotions going on with the two characters practically oozing out of them as their parting draws nearer and nearer until this climax of emtion and feeling that takes place on the crowded street. There is definately a sense of resolve- theres closure that washes over them as they make their final "split" The smile that Bill Murray gives her as he walks backwards...I cant even put words to that part. But it seems like they have an understanding with each other. I do not think that they will see one another again, although its very hard at the same time not to want them to! They are clearly an unlikely couple and it seems to make sense that it ends here between them. But they have somehow given each other hope to take with them to thier own lives. A really thought provoking movie

bill · 1 year ago

I was sure that he said "I have a raging boner and must leave to masterbate, okay?"